This article will save you from potential shame or humiliation. We present a list of 10 things, which in any case do not need to do if you want to have a good dating in China. Please read our advice and do not forget about them.
In contrast, people living in the west, the Chinese are not too comfortable feel, calling each other by name. Only members of the family or the people closest ever turned to the person by name Ming. However, before the name of the Chinese can add a prefix lâo - old or xiâo - old to show their closeness and familiarity.
«Gân bçi» means "bottoms up", so you will need to drink all the drink very quickly. But do not worry. In response, you can always say shuí yì, which means "as you wish" and make only a small sip.
At first glance it may seem that it is rather strange tradition. But think carefully, do not we proceed in much the same? Is educated people in our country will be publicly humiliate another? No! Have we come to visit empty-handed? I think it is very rare. And coming to her friend, we are just as well a couple of times we say, "Oh, no thanks, I'm not hungry!" It seems to me, we were not too hard to follow all these rules, although clearly hear from the owners to compliment the negative response will be a little weird! But we are with you now know that it is normal. And what about the interest of the Chinese traditions and taboos you know? Share with us!
1 Never accept a compliment graciously
You may find yourself in an uncomfortable position when, after a compliment the hostess at the expense of a delicious dinner, and she in turn tells you: "No, no, you dinner was just awful." Or can you tell my mother that her son is very smart and handsome guy, and she says to you that he is stupid and terrible. But these people are not trying to be rude and ill-mannered, on the contrary, they are polite and modest. The moral is, if you want a better and deeper understanding of the culture, it is necessary to use a little less boasting and putting their positive qualities to the show.2 Never put the person in an awkward position
The worst thing that you can do in China - is publicly humiliate, or make inhabitant feel uncomfortable. Having made this, you put a person in an awkward position. Never point out errors, do not yell at people in public. Although such a rule, I think can be attributed to any country, no one would have been nice if they were publicly humiliated. But the good news is that you really can help a man to gain the respect of others, if the right moment to praise him. Your mercy is much appreciated.3 Do not be angry with the public
Public displays of anger perceived Chinese disapproval, and most embarrassing, what they might encounter, especially if you are angry foreign tourists. Note that this behavior is directly related to the public humiliation of the Chinese, especially the owners of those places where you are from, avoid it by any means. The Chinese are very sensitive to the harmony, so you have to struggle to try to be polite and patient.4 Never for the first time does not refer to a man named
The Chinese, like other peoples of the world, there is a first and last name. But in China, the first time people are turning it by name, and not, as we used to, by name. Family, exactly as the team for this nation takes precedence over the individual. For example, John Smith, who lives somewhere in Kentucky, in Shanghai, to be known as John Smith, and if you approached Li Ming, then be sure to contact him should Mr. Lee, not Mr. Ming.In contrast, people living in the west, the Chinese are not too comfortable feel, calling each other by name. Only members of the family or the people closest ever turned to the person by name Ming. However, before the name of the Chinese can add a prefix lâo - old or xiâo - old to show their closeness and familiarity.
5 Do not take food with the wrong side sticks
Next time, sitting down at the table to the Chinese owner, you may notice that the spoon - it is simply non-existent tradition. This is because of the Chinese table all put the food yourself or others with the help of sticks that need to flip the tip down, and then just put yourself or others at the plate. 6 Never drink alcohol before that, did not propose a toast
Chinese banquet comprises from 8 to 10 and serving dishes, and a lot of alcohol. Sometimes you drink rice wine, and sometimes Máo Tái, a well-known fact that as soon as possible knock a few foreigners. A simple way to slow down is to watch the Chinese etiquette, which suggests that before you take a drink, a person is obliged to propose a toast. This will not only help you to not get drunk too fast, but so you also vykazhite helpful hosts. However, if someone says toast «gân bçi», be careful.«Gân bçi» means "bottoms up", so you will need to drink all the drink very quickly. But do not worry. In response, you can always say shuí yì, which means "as you wish" and make only a small sip.
7 Never let someone else pay the bill for it not poborovshis
Many western tourists are surprised, getting into a Chinese restaurant and watching the picture of complete chaos and noisy scenes. What's really going on: it comes time to pay the bill and everyone starts to do what is expected of them - to fight to be the one to pay the bill. The Chinese believe good tone loudly and violently rip through the hands of one who he was. This spectacle can be delayed for a few minutes until someone wins and does not pay the bill. Always appreciated your willingness and ability to pay.8 Do not come in with empty hands
Chinese often exchange gifts and not just on special occasions. If you go to dinner, to meet with business partners, or any other pre-planned event, both parties bring with them some gifts as a sign of friendship and respect. Western tourists are often surprised by the number of gifts from the Chinese hosts. The general rule is that the heading to China, it is worth to take a lot of small gifts with them. Do not know where to meet someone who wants to give you small gifts, so you need to bring your own.9 Never take food, drinks or gifts in front of this without giving up a couple of times
No self-respecting visitor would not immediately agree to everything that the owners offer him. No matter how you hungry, or thirsty, or you can not wait to get a gift - Chinese etiquette suggests that you do not have to show it, some times we must reject the proposed.10 Never take the phrase "No, thank you" literally
The Chinese people have already developed the habit will be to deny you a few times in a row, even despite the fact that they are very hungry or thirsty. You should never accept the first "No, thank you" literally, even if the person you replied refusal several times, do not be lazy to offer again. A good guest should refuse at least once, but a good boss offer twice.At first glance it may seem that it is rather strange tradition. But think carefully, do not we proceed in much the same? Is educated people in our country will be publicly humiliate another? No! Have we come to visit empty-handed? I think it is very rare. And coming to her friend, we are just as well a couple of times we say, "Oh, no thanks, I'm not hungry!" It seems to me, we were not too hard to follow all these rules, although clearly hear from the owners to compliment the negative response will be a little weird! But we are with you now know that it is normal. And what about the interest of the Chinese traditions and taboos you know? Share with us!
